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Mark Bisone's avatar

"So, by talking about these issues in a fearful way, without providing the solutions oriented part, nor shining a light at the end tunnel, we may be just playing into their hands, and hence making it more likely these things become self-fulfilling prophecies."

Well put. To your armory, I would add faith in God as the best defense. But that doesn’t mean other tools might not come in handy in a given situation.

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Xisca Nicolas's avatar

Actually this is tricky, because we need some fear. The point is that we each have a narrow - and different - window of tolerance and reaction.

- Not enough fear and we do nothing.

- Too much fear and we collapse in helplessness.

Gary suggests rightly that:

- our personal healing processes increase our window of tolerance.

- cooperation increases our inner strength.

So fear mongering is inadequate when it is used to prevent cooperation and control. It will be used to favour part of the population, because our institutions are too big and lack personal bonds.

Look at what happens in therapy, when we feel that we receive an adequate support! That's what people used to live daily in their indigenous group: safety within the group, even if life was still full of threats.

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